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Families might find that their elderly loved ones require more help regularly. When this day arrives, the family must begin researching senior living options. Many seniors wish to age in place, and families should allow them to do so as long as possible. When it is no longer feasible, the family can act quickly to keep the senior safe while ensuring they have the least restrictive environment.
Can the Senior Remain at Home?
Families may first discover their loved one is having a problem when they visit and notice the house is dirty or the senior is unkempt. This may be a sign their loved one needs assistance with daily tasks. Don’t be judgmental. Family members should sit with the seniors and ask if they feel well or need help.
The senior may state they are fine, and the family must do some digging to determine whether that is true. They may notice other signs, such as the senior no longer participating in preferred activities or unexplained weight loss. Seniors have cared for themselves and their families for many years, so they may not want to admit they are struggling. Family members should be supportive while trying to find ways to help the senior without being overbearing.
When Concerns Persist
If things don’t change and the senior appears to be struggling for an extended period, it’s time to seek advice from outside sources. Talk with the loved one again and ask to go to their next doctor’s appointment. Contact a senior living community for advice and speak with family and friends who have encountered similar situations. They can offer suggestions and information about senior living options that may benefit the loved one. In cases where full-time relocation isn’t immediately necessary, reaching out to a home care agency can provide a balanced solution, offering support with daily activities while allowing the senior to remain in the comfort of their own home. Ultimately, the goal is to ensure the senior’s safety and quality of life while respecting their independence and dignity.
Remain Empathetic
Seniors often become angry and shut down when family members suggest they can no longer live alone. Validate their emotions because it is difficult to accept they need help. Allow them to share their concerns and be heard. They don’t want to become dependent on others, which most people can understand. Focus on the positives of moving in with a family member or transitioning to a senior living community. They will have support and be able to socialize with others regularly. Give them time to process their feelings and consider all senior living options to determine which feels most comfortable.
Learn About Senior Living Options
Take time to learn about the different living options with seniors. They may not understand what is available and how each option will improve their lives. Allow them to visit several communities and interact with residents. Let them speak with staff members and learn about their care options. Families may find that seniors want to move to communities when they learn about the benefits of maintenance-free living. Someone will cook and clean for them so they have more time for the things they love.
Preparing for a Move to a Senior Living Community
When seniors find a community they love, it’s time to prepare for the transition. Family members should be present at each stage of the process, from helping the seniors downsize to decorating their new residence. The senior may need help gathering documents to sell their home, plan their estate, or address other financial matters. The family should be ready to assist.
When seniors view a move to a community as an opportunity to make new friends and enjoy life, they will be ready to transition to their new accommodations. Families should be there to support them every step of the way, even after the transition is complete. The seniors will look forward to the move knowing their loved ones will be with them throughout the process.
